My other half, Lisa helped me with this.
Talking dirty to your guy isn’t as hard as it seems and most girls want to talk dirty … so what is it all about.
Sex can be a lot better when talking dirty and contrary to popular belief, you really don’t have to behave like a porn star to talk dirty.
Talking dirty should come effortlessly, and it definitely will. The easiest way to start talking dirty when you’re having sex with your man is to just talk. If your thoughts are sexy, the words will be “dirty”.
Some tips. Speak your mind when you’re aroused. While having sex, almost all the time, you’d find that there are a lot of naughty things that pass through your head. If you can think it, say it to your man. If you’re aroused, it’s definitely going to sound dirty.
Think about what the fantasies are that arouse you? The sexiest way to talk dirty to a guy is by fantasizing about passionate moments that are risqué.
Playful sexDescribe your dirty thoughts.
Want to arouse a guy even before you get to the act in bed? Whisper what you’d do to him as soon as you get some time alone with him into his ears when he’s driving and on the way home. As long as you go into all the intimate details, it’ll always be perfect dirty talk. At times, you don’t need words to talk dirty to a guy. When you’re making love to your man, show your appreciation with wet gasps and moans. As long as you go ‘aaah’ each time he thrusts you deep, it’ll give him the same horny boost as sexy talk. Say anything sexy, but whisper it in his ears softly and breathlessly. It’s not always what you say to him to turn him on, but how you say it that makes all the difference. Don’t giggle or try to look sweet. Look sexy, feel confident with your own body and moves, and just drop a few sexy words while biting his ear.
Don’t trash talk unless you like it and so does your husband.
Can you recollect any sexy incidents that always turn both of you on? Perhaps, the time when you almost got caught! Imagining and recreating a sexy memory like the first time you had sex with him or let him fondle your breasts through dirty talk can be extremely arousing and connecting for both of you.
Things to say that are good: You make me so wet. Your shoulders look so sexy. Gosh, it feels so big! I love the way you feel inside me. Ohh… don’t stop that! This feels so good!
Things I ask my wife NOT to say
More, more, more! (trust me, he’s trying his best already!)
Is that all you got, big boy? (are you trying to emasculate him?)
Screaming! Like really screaming.How many people actually enjoy screaming?
F##k me… (seriously, what IS he doing to you?)
Harder! Harder! Harder! … (You’ll make him feel like he’s inadequate unless you compliment him for it after a few seconds of harder thrusts)
Say something dirty to me/Call me a bitch (DON’T ask him, just say it )
Always remember to compliment your man with your words or recreate a few sexy fantasies for him while talking dirty. Everyone is different, but you’ll never know what works unless you try it.
PS. What you see & hear in movies, magazines is meant to excite. It’s NOT real life
Talking dirty to your guy isn’t as hard as it seems and most girls want to talk dirty … so what is it all about.
Sex can be a lot better when talking dirty and contrary to popular belief, you really don’t have to behave like a porn star to talk dirty.
Talking dirty should come effortlessly, and it definitely will. The easiest way to start talking dirty when you’re having sex with your man is to just talk. If your thoughts are sexy, the words will be “dirty”.
Some tips. Speak your mind when you’re aroused. While having sex, almost all the time, you’d find that there are a lot of naughty things that pass through your head. If you can think it, say it to your man. If you’re aroused, it’s definitely going to sound dirty.
Think about what the fantasies are that arouse you? The sexiest way to talk dirty to a guy is by fantasizing about passionate moments that are risqué.
Playful sexDescribe your dirty thoughts.
Want to arouse a guy even before you get to the act in bed? Whisper what you’d do to him as soon as you get some time alone with him into his ears when he’s driving and on the way home. As long as you go into all the intimate details, it’ll always be perfect dirty talk. At times, you don’t need words to talk dirty to a guy. When you’re making love to your man, show your appreciation with wet gasps and moans. As long as you go ‘aaah’ each time he thrusts you deep, it’ll give him the same horny boost as sexy talk. Say anything sexy, but whisper it in his ears softly and breathlessly. It’s not always what you say to him to turn him on, but how you say it that makes all the difference. Don’t giggle or try to look sweet. Look sexy, feel confident with your own body and moves, and just drop a few sexy words while biting his ear.
Don’t trash talk unless you like it and so does your husband.
Can you recollect any sexy incidents that always turn both of you on? Perhaps, the time when you almost got caught! Imagining and recreating a sexy memory like the first time you had sex with him or let him fondle your breasts through dirty talk can be extremely arousing and connecting for both of you.
Things to say that are good: You make me so wet. Your shoulders look so sexy. Gosh, it feels so big! I love the way you feel inside me. Ohh… don’t stop that! This feels so good!
Things I ask my wife NOT to say
More, more, more! (trust me, he’s trying his best already!)
Is that all you got, big boy? (are you trying to emasculate him?)
Screaming! Like really screaming.How many people actually enjoy screaming?
F##k me… (seriously, what IS he doing to you?)
Harder! Harder! Harder! … (You’ll make him feel like he’s inadequate unless you compliment him for it after a few seconds of harder thrusts)
Say something dirty to me/Call me a bitch (DON’T ask him, just say it )
Always remember to compliment your man with your words or recreate a few sexy fantasies for him while talking dirty. Everyone is different, but you’ll never know what works unless you try it.
PS. What you see & hear in movies, magazines is meant to excite. It’s NOT real life